There is one thing that runs through your mind when you have to deal with breaking up with your girlfriend, even if you don't want to admit to it. That thing is, you wonder if you are going to be able to ever find love again. That is a pretty universal fear and it is one that guys just don't talk about with other guys. Yet, if you don't acknowledge that you have that fear, it can severely limit what happens down the road. It can make you jump into a new relationship with the wrong woman a little bit too quickly and it can also make you feel like going back to an old girlfriend, all because you are afraid that you won't be able to find love again.
This is because of the amazing way our brain or more importantly our subconscious works. Our subconscious mind can not tell the difference between reality and perception, true life or make believe. Basically, what we focus on or ask ourselves manifests in our life because of this process. For example, have you ever driven yourself crazy trying to remember something that you knew you knew, given up on it and then woke with a jolt at 2 in the morning with the answer? This is because your subconscious never gave up and kept "going through your brains files" until it found the answer!
Are you online dating. 1 in 5 relationships start online. You can make all the excuses you want but the fact is this. It works if you do it right. If you just toss a profile up there with out a lot of thought, you are setting yourself up for failure in this area as well. To date online is like a job and should be taken seriously. You need to invest time and possibly even money into it to really succeed. Get a professional profile, have a dating coach help you if you get frustrated with online dating. Online dating should be fun.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
Let's take Joan as an example. She is a beautiful woman with a daughter. She has patiently waited for her daughter to reach her mid-teen years before pursuing a love relationship for herself. For 10 years, Joan has been steadily working on herself to let go of old pain and release old behaviors that attracted more problem relationships. She has a great job and owns a home. She has been cleaning house emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
However, It is not always that easy to just turn on the love and live with "an attitude of gratitude" is it? You need to be able to clear away all the negative thoughts, patterns and beliefs that you already have and replace them with the exact opposite. That is where the amazing technology of brain entrainment comes in.With binaural beats and isochronic tones, these spectacular recordings alter your consciousness and stimulate your brain using deep Theta and Alpha states that put your conscious and subconscious mind into such states that ensure your mind, body and spirit is ready to find love.To answer the original question "Will I ever find love?" Yes. You can.
This is because of the amazing way our brain or more importantly our subconscious works. Our subconscious mind can not tell the difference between reality and perception, true life or make believe. Basically, what we focus on or ask ourselves manifests in our life because of this process. For example, have you ever driven yourself crazy trying to remember something that you knew you knew, given up on it and then woke with a jolt at 2 in the morning with the answer? This is because your subconscious never gave up and kept "going through your brains files" until it found the answer!
Are you online dating. 1 in 5 relationships start online. You can make all the excuses you want but the fact is this. It works if you do it right. If you just toss a profile up there with out a lot of thought, you are setting yourself up for failure in this area as well. To date online is like a job and should be taken seriously. You need to invest time and possibly even money into it to really succeed. Get a professional profile, have a dating coach help you if you get frustrated with online dating. Online dating should be fun.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
Let's take Joan as an example. She is a beautiful woman with a daughter. She has patiently waited for her daughter to reach her mid-teen years before pursuing a love relationship for herself. For 10 years, Joan has been steadily working on herself to let go of old pain and release old behaviors that attracted more problem relationships. She has a great job and owns a home. She has been cleaning house emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
However, It is not always that easy to just turn on the love and live with "an attitude of gratitude" is it? You need to be able to clear away all the negative thoughts, patterns and beliefs that you already have and replace them with the exact opposite. That is where the amazing technology of brain entrainment comes in.With binaural beats and isochronic tones, these spectacular recordings alter your consciousness and stimulate your brain using deep Theta and Alpha states that put your conscious and subconscious mind into such states that ensure your mind, body and spirit is ready to find love.To answer the original question "Will I ever find love?" Yes. You can.
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