There are many unreported cases of therapists who abuse their clients in the line of duty. This experience is traumatizing because it signals broken trust. A therapist is expected to guide you into good health and safety. Therapy abuse happens when certain actions go beyond what is considered professional. Every procedure should be geared towards your best interest.
The security and safety that come with therapy should not translate into dual relationship with the therapist. Even as you respect the guidance and opinion of the therapist, professional boundaries must be maintained. Adults are abused as much as children are. This level of vulnerability requires quick action to save the victim from long lasting damage and loss of personal confidence.
Violation may come from either a male or female therapist. Sexual exploitation is the most common form of abuse. Violation has caused many victims to be admitted into hospitals because of depression. Others have attempted suicide while a significant percentage has succeeded. This points at the need to take quick and decisive action.
To avoid or limit abuse, professionals suggest that you follow your gut feelings. This means that, if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong and requires review. Seek the assistance of another therapist or confide in a person you trust. This helps you clarify if the procedure is right and whether it will deliver desired results.
There are behaviors that will signal unprofessional conduct. A therapist who discusses other clients, his personal life or uncomfortable topics is likely to be abusive. If you feel hurt or violated during the initial sessions, it is time to quit. This will ensure that the situation does not get out of hand.
A session with your therapist should not result in a feeling of shame, intimidation, degradation or humiliation. It is supposed to lead to healing and relief. Therapists who make suggestive and erotic comments should be avoided. Acts like winking, kissing, hugging or sexual intercourse are abusive.
A therapist should not pressure you into decisions or activities that are uncomfortable. Text messages, calls, emails and meetings must remain within office space, hours and professional conduct. Compliments should be in appreciation of better health or improvement and not directed to personal attributes. Personal space must be respected under all circumstances.
Regardless of the fact that you need assistance, it must remain at professional level. Avoid a scenario or therapist who makes you feel like you need him or her instead of his professional services. Some make it appear like only he or she can solve your problem. Evaluate the anxiety that comes whenever you miss a session. It could indicate unhealthy dependence.
Parents, spouses and close friends remain your solace in case you are violated. Support organizations have setup resourceful websites to assist victims and offer directions. A change of therapist is recommended at the earliest opportunity. There are legal channels to seek redress including contacting your attorney, reporting to the professional body that regulates therapists and making a statement to the police. There is no violation that is too insignificant to be ignored.
The security and safety that come with therapy should not translate into dual relationship with the therapist. Even as you respect the guidance and opinion of the therapist, professional boundaries must be maintained. Adults are abused as much as children are. This level of vulnerability requires quick action to save the victim from long lasting damage and loss of personal confidence.
Violation may come from either a male or female therapist. Sexual exploitation is the most common form of abuse. Violation has caused many victims to be admitted into hospitals because of depression. Others have attempted suicide while a significant percentage has succeeded. This points at the need to take quick and decisive action.
To avoid or limit abuse, professionals suggest that you follow your gut feelings. This means that, if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong and requires review. Seek the assistance of another therapist or confide in a person you trust. This helps you clarify if the procedure is right and whether it will deliver desired results.
There are behaviors that will signal unprofessional conduct. A therapist who discusses other clients, his personal life or uncomfortable topics is likely to be abusive. If you feel hurt or violated during the initial sessions, it is time to quit. This will ensure that the situation does not get out of hand.
A session with your therapist should not result in a feeling of shame, intimidation, degradation or humiliation. It is supposed to lead to healing and relief. Therapists who make suggestive and erotic comments should be avoided. Acts like winking, kissing, hugging or sexual intercourse are abusive.
A therapist should not pressure you into decisions or activities that are uncomfortable. Text messages, calls, emails and meetings must remain within office space, hours and professional conduct. Compliments should be in appreciation of better health or improvement and not directed to personal attributes. Personal space must be respected under all circumstances.
Regardless of the fact that you need assistance, it must remain at professional level. Avoid a scenario or therapist who makes you feel like you need him or her instead of his professional services. Some make it appear like only he or she can solve your problem. Evaluate the anxiety that comes whenever you miss a session. It could indicate unhealthy dependence.
Parents, spouses and close friends remain your solace in case you are violated. Support organizations have setup resourceful websites to assist victims and offer directions. A change of therapist is recommended at the earliest opportunity. There are legal channels to seek redress including contacting your attorney, reporting to the professional body that regulates therapists and making a statement to the police. There is no violation that is too insignificant to be ignored.
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