Effective True Lover Tests For

By Elaine Guthrie


Finding genuine love in the world today is proving difficult as lovers break promises faster than they are making them. To avoid being cheated, it is good to subject the potential partner to true lover tests. This will help reveal the true character as early as possible and avoid the frustrations of discovering when it is too late. Through actions, you can tell the real character of a person.

A person who truly loves you will be fearless in expressing affection. This happens both in private and in public. When the bug of love bites, it does not matter whether there are people around or you are alone. Your partner will also attempt very challenging things in order to please you. A person who displays such qualities has already passed the test.

A person who is truly in love will show concern and care towards you. The person will inquire about you to be sure that you are doing well. He or she will be interested in your career, health, family, friends and personal goals. The partner makes you feel like you have company regardless of the situation. It is an incredible feeling to know that someone is thinking about you and your interests even though he is not physically there.

It is common and natural to disagree on several issues in a relationship. It takes understanding to give room for differences to exist without affecting your relationship. Your partner will appreciate your weakness and still find you attractive because of your strengths. This means that you can indulge in personal interests on regular basis without causing unnecessary conflicts.

Attention is crucial in maintaining the fire of love. It does not mean physical attention or always being there. It means being alive to inner desires, personal goals, unsaid words, appearance and the general well being. A person who is genuinely in love does not need to be told about your needs. Such a person has the right words for each moment and knows when to remain silent.

There is no room for secrecy in true love. Partners should be open enough on personal and relationship issues. Openness comes out of the fact that there is trust and a feeling that he or she can rely on you. While not every secret is shared, it is necessary to ensure that issues affecting the two of you are revealed. They range from finances to future dreams and issues that you may be uncomfortable about.

A lover who makes effort to keep the relationship working is truly affectionate. Effort is required to make the other person as happy as possible. Effort also helps the partners to overcome challenges in the knowledge that none is overburdening the other. Each tries to be the best partner possible in a relationship.

Genuine love comes with a lot of jealousy and protectiveness. Each partner desires that no one should come in between. This jealousy should not be destructive. Jealousy is only an attempt to be possessive and enjoy all attention from the other partner. With such actions, the test is either passed or failed.




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