Testing Love With True Lover Tests

By Nancy Gardner


People fall in love everyday. It is one of the most widely experienced and most enjoyable aspects of life as a human being. But it also has the potential to go bad or turn sour, especially when persons are misled into thinking they are in a loving relationship when in reality they are not. This is why it is so important to ensure that you are in the right relationship with the right person. Failing to do so can result in catastrophe. True lover tests help to prevent this catastrophe.

Many people confuse love with infatuation. Infatuation though, is temporary even though it is quite intense. The fact that infatuation is short-lived makes it important for those who are experiencing it to avoid making any long term decisions. But without the assistance of methods such as these instruments, they are usually unable to identify the experience as infatuation. This is especially true of teenagers, who are commonly associated with periods of infatuation.

Many long term decisions are taken in haste when individuals are in the throes of young love or infatuation. These decisions have the potential to trigger long lasting negative effects especially if the relationship fails. While these instruments cannot, by themselves, prevent the heartache of failed relationships, they are able to send warning signals when relationships are starting off on weak footing.

Love evaluation instruments are made up of questions. These questions are focused on the behaviors and feelings of the subjects. Each question has a range of, on average, three questions. Each of those questions has a numeric value. When the test is completed, the total score of the questions is tallied. This total is them matched against some categories to determine which one is appropriate. The category contains an overview of the status of the love or the relationship.

Often found in magazine publications, these tests are popular as a means of passing the time. People complete the evaluation sheets in doctor's offices as they wait to be seen. They also complete them as they sit in their seats on a flight or bus traveling from one destination to another.

Many of these true love evaluation systems are now available online. The online versions are often easier to complete. This is because they tend to be interactive enough for the computer to assign the scores for the responses and tally the final score. The evaluation result is then produced automatically. This removes a lot of the work from the task allowing the test taker to attempt as many relationship evaluation instruments as possible.

Professional therapists also use them. In combination with compatibility evaluation sheets, they provide important information on the state of a relationship and its potential to last or fail. This allows the relationship expert to provide clients with evidence supported advise.

Love is a pretty unpredictable thing, for the most part. You never really know when it is coming your way or for how long it plans to stay. Testing the verity of your love using these instruments is one of multiple things that you can do to safeguard your heart. It also helps to prevent the heartache and disappointment that comes with failed relationships.




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