A few years ago I listened to one of my teachers give our class a Holiday pep talk before we left for vacation and I never forgot it.
The words that came out of his mouth hit ready ears and they changed my life for good.
Accept your condition.
What do I mean by this?
He meant that you should understand exactly where you are in life and know why you got there.
To take it further, it means that you should look at all of the areas of your life - relationships, personal life, body etc and see things as they truly are.
The other important part is to see them as they are and not how you think they should have been.
The reason why you need to look at where you are now is...
It becomes the solid foundation that you can build your new life upon.
Going through this process allows you to step right into building a new life without trying to escape your old one.
Accept where you are now, accept that your actions in the past have driven you to the place where you are at this moment, and you will be on your way along the developmental process and the goal setting path.
So how do you actually do this?
The best way I've been able to do this is to get a piece of paper and brainstorm everything surrounding your life at the moment. Where are you at? What has happened in your past that has really affected you?
When you go through this process it really gives you great visual experience of what's going on in your life and how you need to reorganize everything.
When you audit your life, you give yourself the ability to go, "Okay, where do I want to be? What do I see for myself?"
Understand what your vision is for the future and then work backwards from the end to what you have going on in your life right now.
Do this step by step and it will help you create a fantastic battle plan.
What's the last piece of all of this? Write down everything you need to know and everything you have to engage in to accomplish this end goal.
Those lists of what you need to know will further guide you in the right direction.
So take some time to seriously understand where you are at and how you need to go to where you want to go.
To help you get from where you are now to where you need to be in the future.
This process is pure magic.
The words that came out of his mouth hit ready ears and they changed my life for good.
Accept your condition.
What do I mean by this?
He meant that you should understand exactly where you are in life and know why you got there.
To take it further, it means that you should look at all of the areas of your life - relationships, personal life, body etc and see things as they truly are.
The other important part is to see them as they are and not how you think they should have been.
The reason why you need to look at where you are now is...
It becomes the solid foundation that you can build your new life upon.
Going through this process allows you to step right into building a new life without trying to escape your old one.
Accept where you are now, accept that your actions in the past have driven you to the place where you are at this moment, and you will be on your way along the developmental process and the goal setting path.
So how do you actually do this?
The best way I've been able to do this is to get a piece of paper and brainstorm everything surrounding your life at the moment. Where are you at? What has happened in your past that has really affected you?
When you go through this process it really gives you great visual experience of what's going on in your life and how you need to reorganize everything.
When you audit your life, you give yourself the ability to go, "Okay, where do I want to be? What do I see for myself?"
Understand what your vision is for the future and then work backwards from the end to what you have going on in your life right now.
Do this step by step and it will help you create a fantastic battle plan.
What's the last piece of all of this? Write down everything you need to know and everything you have to engage in to accomplish this end goal.
Those lists of what you need to know will further guide you in the right direction.
So take some time to seriously understand where you are at and how you need to go to where you want to go.
To help you get from where you are now to where you need to be in the future.
This process is pure magic.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME coaching. Dive into these great Work Quotes or these Confidence Quotes to get some motivation to move forward!
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