The Traits Of Those Who Have Empowered Lifestyles

By Mary Johnson


There is a significant difference between people who seem to have control over their own lives as compared to those who let the external situations control them. The difference is that the former type of people are empowered and live a lifestyle that constantly empowers them to take control of themselves with minimal struggle. For those who are curious about these kinds of people, here are some traits of people who live empowered lifestyles.

Now, the first thing to know about people like these is that they are self motivated meaning that they do not need any outside factor to motivate them to do anything. Basically, once one has already developed the mindset that he can do anything he wants as long as he wants to put his head to it, then this will be the first step of empowerment. With this mindset, one will no longer look outward for motivation but rather inward.

Alongside this kind of mindset, there would also be some action that goes with it. The thing about those who believe in empowerment is that they never stop increasing their arsenal of skills. They always want to learn something new that they know will benefit them in the long run.

Another very unique trait about these people is that they do not really care about what other people think of them or how other people feel about them. If there is someone who does not like them, they will most likely ignore it and concentrate on doing their other more important tasks. That trait in itself, is already a very empowering one because it releases one from the grip other people have on them which is known as shame.

Of course, they still do take into consideration what people tell them. The difference would be that they are selective as to what information they process because they know that not all information is useful in their lives. With this, they know how to screen out which information will be beneficial to them and which ones will not be.

These people are also seen to be very enthusiastic about life. These people are enthusiastic about what they do and what they are about. They are not overly optimistic yet they are not pessimistic. They are realistic in a sense wherein they know that their own actions can be controlled by their own means whereas other people cannot.

Finally, one can observe these people to be as calm as can be. This is not because they are immune to worrying or do not get worried, rather they do not let the situation get over them. They calmly weigh all the options together and calmly think of a solution that can be able to fix whatever the problem is.

Basically, empowering oneself is not about reading a book or being riled up by charismatic speakers. It is about accepting life the way it is and taking control of it. The only way to empower is to take the power from any type of situation and use it to an advantage for a gain.




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