Why Am I So Unhappy With Myself Most Of The Time

By Charles Ross


There are many reasons people struggle with unhappiness. In most cases, folks are not even sure of what happiness is. They may think that there is always something better to what they have in their lives. Everyone asks at some point, the question, why am I so unhappy with myself. However, it can be something temporary. Of course, it is something to take note of.

There are many reasons for this, from being in low in confidence and being self conscience because of folks who are overweight or worried about the way that they look. In this day and age, there is so much media attention. There is a lot of judgement in terms of how people see one another.

Usually, one will turn to a psychologist or a counselor. There are different types of counseling. Some people also prefer the more practical approach of life coaching. There are pros and cons of both approaches, but one has to weigh up the pros and cons. It can depend on whether someone wants to talk about their problems or focus on goals and taking action.

It can be difficult to face your fears, especially when you have been blocking these emotions out for a number of years. When something traumatic has happened in your life, it is natural for you to not want to talk about this. However, as time goes by, you will want to find a way to wake up feeling that you are going to be okay for the rest of the day.

People work a lot or they go shopping which helps them to escape from everything else and puts them on a high. Other addictions develop and this is not uncommon, but obviously complications will exist with this as well. Loved ones should encourage the individual to go to therapy. There is so much that one can learn about themselves during this time.

As soon as people begin to become more vulnerable by expressing themselves and allowing their emotions to come out, they will notice a difference. This is where the healing process begins. It is obviously not an instant cure, but it will take time for the individual to rediscover and learn about themselves, which is so helpful.

When you want to show your strength in terms of improving, you need to become vulnerable. It takes a great deal of courage to get to this point where you are fully focused on your emotions and being able to express them verbally and non-verbally as well. However, one has to trust the therapist, knowing that they have the experience to guide the individual using the most suitable methods.

You need to know how to cope when you are struggling with various circumstances that can bring you down. Often, one will work on techniques which they can quickly turn to. For example, there are many apps on the phone and people may listen to something there. This could be meditation or mindfulness. Some people have anxiety or panic attacks. Although, you may find that these attacks are reduced after you deal with underlying feelings, you may get the odd panic attack. When this happens, you need to be prepared for this.




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