Dealing With The Fear Of Driving

By Toms Sousa Lima


Did you know that a lot of people suffer with the fear of driving a car? Yes it's true a lot of people out there have this very same fear. It is not just you that has this fear but a lot of people.Maybe you're scared to just drive in a certain situation or maybe you're scared to drive period. Either way the fear can be overcome. Maybe you're scared to drive in traffic and if that's the case this fear can also be overcome.

First figure out why are you scared to drive a car in traffic and then take steps to overcome the fear. Are you scared of the cars around you or are you scared you may make a mistake? Did you know that being scared while driving can cause you to make a mistake? Being scared is dangerous because you have poor judgment and this can cause an accident all by itself.So just relax while you are driving in traffic and that can really help you get over your fear. If you just follow the rules of the road and drive your car properly you won't have any accidents. You do not have to be afraid as that is not a good feeling. Just calm down and be careful and you will be fine.

Here are 4 tips on how to overcome fear of driving.Take small steps and you will eventually get to your destination -- A lot of people who have a fear of driving simply give up using their car altogether. This is the way to perpetuate your condition, not to heal yourself. If you feel that you're unable to drive, simply use the car for short periods. Either drive around the block, or to the grocery store, or take frequent pit stops to make sure your fear doesn't build up. By doing so, you're conditioning your mind to gradually overcome your fears.

Listen to soothing music while you're driving -- Music has great effect on our mood. Find some music that you can relax to and play it while you're driving. It will lower your overall stress levels and your will enjoy your ride more.Get a driving buddy -- To do things together is usually less scary than to do them by yourself. Many people have a fear of driving alone. Ask a friend or family member to accompany you while you drive. That way you'll build up your confidence and experience less fear.

Today, I have my own car, and while I still can't say I love driving, I drive everywhere I need to go without thinking about it too much, and I can drive freely on highways, interstates, all the places that once made me instantly panic.Hopefully, if your reading this and you also suffer from some sort of driving anxiety or fear, you will take from this article one thing - you'll never know until you try. I also thought I could never be able to drive myself freely, but it happened. And if you decide it's important enough, it will happen to you too.

Out of the different types of phobias when it comes to driving, the fear of driving alone is one that can definitely make a person's life more complicated. This type of condition literally means that a person is afraid to be behind the wheel of a vehicle by themselves. As a result, individuals suffering from this phobia will go out of their way to make sure that they do not have to drive alone at all costs.

Of course, such a condition comes with a number of disadvantages and can negatively affect a person's lifestyle. There are times when it is unavoidable to drive alone, which can be detrimental to the driver. The fear of driving alone can result in experiencing a panic attack, feelings of anxiety, stress, nausea and even physical ailments such as headache, abdominal pain and a rapid heartbeat. Dealing with some or all of these symptoms can make focusing on driving nearly unbearable. In order to avoid such experiences, individuals that are scared to drive alone will turn to alternative methods like making sure they have at least one passenger in the car with them each time they get behind the wheel. Unfortunately, this is not a realistic method. Public transportation is another option but still does not address the problem.

Talk to your friends.The next people to tell about your anxiety and plans of getting over the fear of driving are friends. They don't need to know the past behind your fear if sharing it makes you feel uncomfortable. What you can tell them are the symptoms you're experiencing, what factors trigger your fear, and how difficult it is to deal with it. Do you experience panic attacks when trying to drive? Do trucks trigger your fear? Do you feel anxious when friends talk about talk about driving? Tell your friends about them. By sharing these details, they'll be more sensitive to your feelings and help you with getting over the fear of driving.

Talk to psychologist or join a therapy group.Psychologists understand the human psyche more than anyone else. If friends and family don't seem enough for getting over the fear of driving, you can seek help from a professional. Just go through the process and see your psychologist regularly. Listen intently to what he has to say and remain open to his suggestions. Remember that the intervention of a psychologist can only be effective if you follow his advices. If you don't find talking to a psychologist comfortable, you can look for a local therapy group in your community that specializes in getting over the fear of driving. The therapists who handle these groups are professionals while the members are also afraid of driving.

While you are in this state of hypnosis, your powers of concentration are heightened which your hypnotist will use to guide your focus inward. Your hypnotist can then identify what causes your fear. Your hypnotist will then plant positive suggestions in your subconscious that will change how your mind perceives that fear.Your hypnotist will reprogram your subconscious so that the traumatic event from your past will no longer influence your life today. In doing this, your subconscious will begin to understand that it does not have to trigger a fear response when you want to drive. Through positive suggestion and visualization techniques, hypnosis will allow you to be free from your fear of driving completely and allow you to truly enjoy the full experience of the open road.




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