Life is a big wheel. Generally, we have all been confronted with certain predicaments which are outside of our comfort zones and present a huge change in our lives.
Dealing with life's big changes is easy when you are young. There will be a lot of big psychological babble telling you that facing challenges and change is a great thing when you are young, it changes the way to see things and helps you adapt and see the real world that you have to face. In short, you need that big life change to help you overcome the next one.
However, things are different when you are 30 years old and above when you just lost your job, your fianc broke up your engagement or you experience a big life crisis where you question even your very existence. Do not fear because this is natural.
Having that in mind, people above the age of 30 facing life's big twists and turns ask the question: Is There a Chance to Start Again at the Age of 30 and above? Of course, the answer is yes and there are three simple things that you should know when you are faced with such a dilemma.
First, remember that you are not the only person on earth with the similar problem. There are vast persons around the world and they are faced with almost the same dilemma as you are facing. There are thousands or huge numbers of people who have exactly the same problems as you but with most severe circumstances. If others can cope with it, then suck it up and cope with it as well.
We are definitely not saying that you can pretend that everything is okay when everything is not. Make an attempt and find out what went wrong. Maybe a support group can help and maybe not but trying is the first step towards making sure that you have what you need in life. Get some of your friends and tell them the predicament that you are in. Once you tell others your problems and you get advice from the people who know what to do, you are halfway towards the solution and you will definitely get the answers that you have long been waiting for.
Second it is important that you try and open up to others who do not personally know you. Once you do this, you open the world of affirmations and possibilities into your life and you will be glad that you did because life as you know it would start feeling better. Hire a life coach and see what a life coach can do for you.
Finally, remember that you are 30 years old or above 30 years of age. You will not reach that age without facing any trials and obstacles. It is time for you to man up and face the problem head on, or woman up so as not to be so particular. The past 30 years of your life is a test and now the true test of your courage and strength is being conducted. Are you just going to sit there and watch a couple of young people live their lives and make mistakes while you just stand there and hide from your problems? We believe not.
Dealing with life's big changes is easy when you are young. There will be a lot of big psychological babble telling you that facing challenges and change is a great thing when you are young, it changes the way to see things and helps you adapt and see the real world that you have to face. In short, you need that big life change to help you overcome the next one.
However, things are different when you are 30 years old and above when you just lost your job, your fianc broke up your engagement or you experience a big life crisis where you question even your very existence. Do not fear because this is natural.
Having that in mind, people above the age of 30 facing life's big twists and turns ask the question: Is There a Chance to Start Again at the Age of 30 and above? Of course, the answer is yes and there are three simple things that you should know when you are faced with such a dilemma.
First, remember that you are not the only person on earth with the similar problem. There are vast persons around the world and they are faced with almost the same dilemma as you are facing. There are thousands or huge numbers of people who have exactly the same problems as you but with most severe circumstances. If others can cope with it, then suck it up and cope with it as well.
We are definitely not saying that you can pretend that everything is okay when everything is not. Make an attempt and find out what went wrong. Maybe a support group can help and maybe not but trying is the first step towards making sure that you have what you need in life. Get some of your friends and tell them the predicament that you are in. Once you tell others your problems and you get advice from the people who know what to do, you are halfway towards the solution and you will definitely get the answers that you have long been waiting for.
Second it is important that you try and open up to others who do not personally know you. Once you do this, you open the world of affirmations and possibilities into your life and you will be glad that you did because life as you know it would start feeling better. Hire a life coach and see what a life coach can do for you.
Finally, remember that you are 30 years old or above 30 years of age. You will not reach that age without facing any trials and obstacles. It is time for you to man up and face the problem head on, or woman up so as not to be so particular. The past 30 years of your life is a test and now the true test of your courage and strength is being conducted. Are you just going to sit there and watch a couple of young people live their lives and make mistakes while you just stand there and hide from your problems? We believe not.
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